While a kid’s attitude often reflects the parents’ way of raising up the kid, having your kid throw a few tantrums every so often does not automatically mean that you’re bad parents or that he’s a bad kid. In fact, a few tantrums are pretty normal during toddler to early pre-school years.

And because pacifying a kid in a hissy fit is often a challenging task, here are a few tips for you to get by during tantrum time:

Tip number one is to ignore your kid. To be able to cope with your kid’s tantrum is to know the reason behind it. And more often than not, the reason for your kid’s tantrum is because he wants attention. It’s either he wants you to give him back the lollipop you took because it will ruin his appetite for supper or he wants you to buy that expensive toy he saw at the mall.

It is never a good idea to give in to the whim of your kid. Remember, if you give him what he wants while he’s in his tantrum mode, you are reinforcing that bad behaviour. If he sees that with a few screams and a few kicks on the floor, he gets what he wants then he will realize that he has that power over you and he’ll do it every time he wants something. In other words, you’ll be spoiling him.

A smart move is to completely ignore your kid. Go to another room so you won’t hear him and you won’t be tempted to punish him or shout at him. Even punishing him or telling him to stop will only backfire because he’ll only do it more because he’s gotten your attention. But if you don’t pay any attention to him, he’ll soon get tired and stop on his own. Ignoring him every time he has a tantrum will eventually make him realize that all his tantrum efforts are in vain.

But in doing this method, you have to be sure to do just the opposite when your kid behaves properly. Show him attention, shower him with praises, hugs and kisses when he does something good so that you reinforce the good behaviour and eliminate the bad ones.

Another useful tip is to divert his attention. If he suddenly throws a tantrum right in the middle of your living room because he’s upset that his favourite cartoon show is over, give him something interesting to distract him. For example, offer him his favourite wooden train set and engage him in hours of building fun.

Wooden toy trains are delightful toys that will surely pacify any kid in a hissy fit. Because it’s endlessly interesting with the many possible variations of things to build and create, wooden trains are excellent tools for distraction that will make your kid forget about the thing he’s upset about.

What you’d love more about wooden trains is the fact that not only is it enjoyable to play, it’s also highly educational and will enhance a variety of your kid’s skills that are essential for him to grow up physically and mentally healthy.

Wooden trains improve your kid’s motor skills, spark his creative imagination and enhance his visual perception like his shape and color discrimination and hand-eye coordination.

Being a parent is never easy. After you’ve gotten over the hard phase of sleepless nights, diapering a baby, chasing after a walking toddler, you’re now in the stage where bigger things like tantrums pose a greater challenge for you.