When you see your kid play with his toys, you’re there carefully observing and watching him. And every time he squeals in delight after accomplishing something or when something funny happens during play, you can’t help but melt with joy.
But being a passive observer in a child’s play does not entirely encompass the real role that parents should undertake during this process of learning and playing.
One of the most important responsibilities of a parent during a child’s play is to provide him with nurturing and enriching toys and activities that will be instrumental in honing a variety of skills that are needed to ensure that he thrives physically and mentally healthy.
Providing your kid with the right educational toys is the key purpose of this part of your role. You have to be aware of the benefits you’ll child reap of from whatever toy you choose to give him so that you make an informed decision. For example, you choose to give him wooden toys. You must consider what kind of wooden toys would be helpful in enhancing his motor skills, inciting his creativity and imagination, encouraging either cooperative or independent plays, and foster cognitive areas in the brain related to logic and problem solving. After much research you’d find that the answer to your question would be wooden building toys such as wooden blocks or wooden train sets.
Wooden trains for children with its constructible pieces are excellent in providing your kid with the necessary mind and body exercise by engaging him in activities where he will make use of his imagination as well as the small muscles in his hands, thus improving fine motor skills.
The second most important role of a parent is to participate in the child’s play. It is never enough that you sit down and watch your kid from afar as he tries to enrich his mind with the variety of mind stimulating activities you’ve given him. Sure, some activities call for independent play like building a wooden train but you should never overlook the fact that your kid needs guidance and supervision from you like when he can’t figure out what piece should go with what slot in his wooden train set.
Aside from that your kid also craves for quality time that you can give while you play and bond with him. When you try to help him put together his wooden train or stack up his wooden building blocks or do pretend plays with his plush toys, not only does this make you feel young at heart again, it certainly makes your kid feel important and that he’s loved and cared for.
Third essential part of parents in child’s play is to give constant reassurance as well as positive reinforcement. When your kid shows you the clay sculpture or wooden train set proudly, be sure to praise him for a job well done. When he approaches you crying because he’s lost in the game of tag, give him a hug and reassure him that you love him no matter what and that losing is a part of the game that should not depress him but should instead inspire him to do better next time.
Parents even during playtime have ultimate responsibility in making sure that their kids grow up mentally and physically healthy as well as to be an individual with high esteem and respect for himself. |